Friday, November 15, 2024
Why Flourish?
Vulnerable New Year
To Be Happy
Thursday, April 14, 2022
The Windy City
On our last morning, I went for a walk down to the lake. It was glorious! Miles and miles of trail around the snowy lake. People were out with dogs, running, walking and chatting with friends. Very much a happy place!
One day, we went to the top of the Willis Tower (formerly Sears Tower). The views were amazing and the sky deck was... creepy!
It was surprisingly very scary to walk out on that glass deck. I knew it was safe, but still creepy!
Outside the Bulls arena. We headed to the arena early, only to find out we had the time wrong, so we were EXTRA early. We waited outside in the freezing temps for about 45 minutes! Brrrr!!!! Once inside, we grabbed some hot dogs and sodas and found our (really good) seats! It was so much fun! Suns won! The fans were nice, food was good, entertainment was great! Fun experience.
Chicago had very strict COVID rules in place. Masks had to be worn and vaccination cards had to be shown EVERYWHERE! It was a bit ridiculous, but we had our cards and followed the rules.
I loved the city! I have always been a big fan of SF and I like NYC, but I think Chicago has moved to the front of the favorites category. I loved how clean it was and all of the open spaces. The history and architecture were breath taking and the food was scrumptious! And I really loved being away with MR. C for 4 days!!!
xoxo
Monday, April 11, 2022
I Feel Good
(spring blooms on a prickly pear atop A Mountain)
On March 13, 2022, I began the A Mountain Challenge. The goal is to reach Mount Everest (equivalent to 40 laps) by April 30. I reached the summit and completed the challenge on April 8!A Mountain is a short, but steep climb. (1,495 ft elevation) Not going to lie... by the end I was done with it. I was tired of the climb, tired of picking up trash, tired of the tourist in their flip flops... But I never tire of the spectacular views seen from the top! The sprawling ASU campus and Tempe Town Lake appear calm from my perch in the sky.
I love a good challenge and I LOVE feeling good! It was a good experience and although I complained about the tourists, I did meet some nice people. One man in particular was doing the challenge for the second year in a row. He was 67. During COVID he said he "drank too much and got fat" and needed to make some changes. He lost a lot of weight when he did it last year and decided he had more to lose. He was out there every day. I was there on the day he completed his 40th lap. He had begun at 6:30 that morning. (It was after 1:30 when I saw him). We stopped to say hi and he said, "this is it.. My 40th lap!" It was also his 12th for the day!!!! (The most I did in a day was 6).
Kind, friendly, and inspiring. The world needs more of that!
Friday, January 29, 2021
Fall in San Diego - October 2019
I begged. I pleaded. I dug my heels in the ground and said I wouldn't go. But. I spent five days of my October in San Diego anyway. (I know. I'm a brat. Who wouldn't want to go to San Diego)?
It was Cade's fall break and he begged and pleaded (obviously better than me) to go to SD. He has always been my beach baby. He could live in that water even if it is freezing and he needed a wetsuit. (Which we did buy day two of the trip). He spent four days surfing from sun up to sun down. He was in heaven.
Fall in San Diego is (as much as I hate to admit it) lovely. Temps were in the 60's-70's. I wore sweatshirts on the beach and the streets and beaches were far less crowded than summertime. The best part, however, was seeing this kid so happy. Mr. C was pretty happy too. (He also loves it there. I am the odd man out. Randi loves it too, but couldn't come with us because of classes).
Our VRBO was perfectly located on Mission and Beryl. We were a five minute walk from the beach, which made it perfect for two teenage boys. We were also walking distance from great restaurants and stores. We had some great meals out and were able to cook at our rental too. Some of our favorite places to chow down were:
Taco Surf - burros, tacos, salsa...it was all delish!
Breakfast Republic - scrambles, homemade jams, and the Presley... amazing!
Biggies Burger - burgers, chicken strips and veggie burgers were consumed and loved by all!
Mr. Moto Pizza - cheese, veggie, and sausage were hits!
Better Buzz Coffee - Best Drink Ever (that's what it's called) was amazing! We all liked our breakfast sandwiches and almond butter/jam toast!
Cade invited a friend along for the trip and the two of them were fun and easy. A couple of times we dropped the boys off at Mission Beach (we were at Pacific Beach), so they could hang with some friends from school (and have a little independence). I think they had a blast. (I mean, how could you not? Teenagers in SD with a little freedom)?!
From Phoenix the drive is so nice and easy. A short five hours and you are at the beach!
Although the trip was better than I expected, I can't say it's one of my favorite places. I still prefer the mountains and smaller towns. I would probably like the beach better if I were in a small coastal town... just not a city gal! However, I loved our daily walks on the beach and seeing my boys so happy.
xoxo
Be A Good Human - September 2019
"No matters what happens in life, be good to people. Being good to people is a wonderful legacy to leave behind."
The other day, Cade and I were at the grocery store. As we were approaching the checkout there was a nice, older man giving out samples of his salsa that he sells in stores. Cade and I both sampled, chatted with him and bought a jar. As we moved to the line Cade continued to watch. The gentleman would greet everyone with a friendly smile and ask if they would like a sample. I watched as my 15 year old keenly observed people. One woman rudely declined the free sample. I just looked the other way and began unloading groceries on the conveyer belt. Cade kept watching. As we were walking to the car Cade said, "could you imagine being such a shitty human being? Would it have killed her to take a sample? She didn't even say 'no thank you'. She was so rude." I smiled. Although I may not have been thrilled with his word choice, he was so right. This 15 year old person with a kind soul was more in tune with people and the human spirit than that middle aged woman.
The greatest thing I can do in this life is to be a good person and raise good human beings. (So far so good). I have two teenagers that I actually like. (I know we all love our kids, but don't lie...there are moments when we may not like them)! Mr. C and I were talking the other day and I said, "we have pretty kids. I actually like them and enjoy being in their company." I really do. They make me laugh. I love watching them grow into young adults. They are maturing and growing from their decisions (good or bad). My heart swells when I see them being a good human being and when they recognize the grown adults who are being sh*tty ones.
"Being a good person doesn’t depend on your religion, your race or your skin color or your culture. It depends on how good is your heart and how good you treat others.” Anonymous
(Cute jacket from ThredUp. Jumper from H & M)
xoxo